Wednesday, April 25, 2012

Hitched in Honduras… Sorry Mom


Decorations... in progress

Sunday was the Kermesse, which is basically the equivalent of a one-day parish festival.  There were games, bands, food, ect.  All of the girls spent the previous week preparing for the festivities, working out steps for their class’s dance for the Festival or practicing modeling for the model showcase (which Thalia took part in.  I really wanted to see her strut her stuff, but unfortunately I was selling tickets at the time of the show so I missed it).  All day Saturday was spent decorating the school for the big party.  One of the interna’s families brought in a bun of bamboo and we made little houses out of it from which food was sold.  The girls made a bunch of signs and banners to decorate the school.  It all turned out really well and looked absolutely awesome! 

A bamboo food-stand
The festivities started at 8:00 AM on Sunday morning.  I was put to work practically right away selling tickets in one of the banks because the teacher who was supposed to be selling there hadn’t shown up yet – and he didn’t show up until 10:00 for his 8-11:00 shift… only in Honduras would one get away with that.  Anyways, I spent a majority of my day selling tickets as after working from 8-11 in one bank, I moved to another bank to sell tickets from 11-2.  I then was able to walk around and hang out until about 2:45 when I noticed that one of the banks was short a person and went back to selling tickets until around 6:00.  However, I was able to talk to some of the different teachers at the school which was really cool because we don’t have a lot of time during the school day to get to know each other.      

My marriage certificate and ring
In the banks, we sold tickets that the patrons used to play the various games and buy food.  The games were:  roulettes, a raffle-like thing, throwing a ball through a hole that was supposed to be a clown’s nose, you could send people to jail and they had to pay to get out, and you could make people “get married” and then have to pay to get divorced.  Hence, the name of this post.  During my first shift in the bank, a guy came up and wanted to buy a ticket to make someone get married.  After buying the ticket, he turns to me and goes “I want to marry you.”  I was like: Say what?  But he insisted so we went over to the little “marriage” room that the girls had set up.  They put a veil on my head, had us sign a piece of paper, two witnesses signed it, we exchanged 75 cent rings, and the facilitator goes “okay, kiss”  and I’m like: Say what?  Yet again.  (I was so not prepped for what was involved in this process!)  So I go in for the kiss on the cheek, you know the I’ll kiss your cheek, you kiss mine that is normal with Latin American population.  However, he had a different idea and completely planted a wet sloppy one on my mouth (that took off all of the chapstick I had on.  It was GROSS!  Anyway, so now I’m married – at least according to the Intsituto María Auxiliadora.  Sorry Mom!

My Primer Bacchi girls doing
their dance
The other cool thing that they did at the Kermesse was: each of the classes choreographed their own dance number to a mash-up that they had composed themselves.  All of the groups then got up and performed during the Festival in the afternoon.  Because I was selling tickets, I was not able to see all of the groups, but the ones I did see were all really good.  It is actually really impressive how well some of the girls can dance!

For those of you who don’t know, yesterday was by birthday (I turned 22 – man I’m getting old!) and I was able to celebrate it here.  Some of the girls woke me up in the morning by popping a bunch of balloons right outside our door and blasting the mananitas song (a Spanish Happy Birthday song) literally all morning.  They have a CD of a bunch of different renditions, so as Thalia and I were getting ready we heard the same song, like, 15 times.  At breakfast, the internas sang me the mananitas song and then I was sung to again by the sisters (in Spanish and again in English – which was really quite comical).  My English class also sang me Happy Birthday in English.  Throughout the day I received an obscene number of hugs from all of the girls here – even when I was walking out around the town with the internas yesterday afternoon to take them shopping, a couple of the girls from school stopped me to wish me happy birthday and give me a hug and then made their two friends who don’t go to school at María Auxiliadora wish me happy birthday and give me a hug too.  Thalia and I baked a jello poke cake and it turned out really well (but the cake is really simple, which is why we chose it!) and all of the sisters loved it!  There is very little left, I’m not sure if it will live through lunch today!  A bunch of the girls also made me birthday cards and a couple of them even got me presents, which was super sweet and totally unexpected! 

It is truly amazing how much love these girls have to share… they don’t have a lot of the material possessions that we have in the US but what they do have they share with others or straight up give away.  And when they don’t have anything to give, they shower you with so much love that it is truly astounding.  I feel incredibly blessed to have been give this time to spend with all of the amazing people that are here!  It truly was a blessed birthday.

Additionally, I want to thank all of you who sent me birthday cards here.  The sisters mentioned that the volunteers usually don’t get as many cards as I have… You guys all mean so much to me, and I really appreciate all of the thoughts and prayers.  Know that my thoughts are prayers are with you as well.

I guess that’s all for now.  Loves to everyone at home!

Wednesday, April 18, 2012

Almost three months...


On Monday, April 23rd I will have been in Honduras for 3 months… which is absolutely crazy!  I can’t decide if the time has flown by or if it feels like I have been here for way longer (I’m sure you know how that feels).  But anyways, I figured I would: 1. Give you my daily schedule so that you know what I do with my time every day – or how I waste it – and 2.  Write a little summary of what life here has been like overall for the past three months/ what new things I have done/ tried/ accomplished.

1.  My weekday schedule:
5:15 AM – Wake up
6:00 AM – Supervise the internas’ breakfast
6:20 AM – Supervise the internas’ morning chores
6:45 AM – Eat breakfast
 7:20 AM – Tech English to the Primer Bachillerato girls (depending on the day, the time changes, but class is always 1 hour and 20 minutes)
9:15 AM – Sell snacks during first recess
10:00 AM – Time to lesson plan/ do laundry/ catch up on anything that I need to do
11:45 AM – Sell snacks during second recess
12:00 PM – Eat lunch/ free time for me
1:30 PM – Supervise the internas’ lunch
2:00 PM – Supervise the internas’ afternoon chores
3:00 PM – Mondays: Hang out with/ tutor the girls who need it
Tuesdays: Go out into the town with the girls who need to go shopping
Wednesday: Teach an English/Math review session to Segundo Curso girls
Thursday: Teach a Computer review for Primer Bachi and Primer Curso girls
Friday: Hang out with/ tutor girls who need it
4:30 PM – Recess/snack for internas, I pretty much just hang out with the girls
5:15 PM – Pray the rosary
5:45 PM – Supervise the internas’ “Estudio Riguroso,” Thalia and I switch off with this
7:15 PM – Eat dinner
7:45 PM – Night time recess with internas
8:15 PM – Night time prayer/get ready for bed
8:45 PM – I’m officially off the clock

I have a free day on Saturdays.  And Sundays are pretty much the same as the week day except we get to sleep in until 6:30 AM, we teach an English class for adults from 8:30 AM until 11:00AM, go to mass at 11:00 AM, and then start with lunch with the internas at 1:00 PM.

2.  What I have learned:
  • I eat more beans in the course of a week than I have in my entire 21 years of life on this planet before I came here (and according to Monseñor, eating beans makes you less intelligent)
  • I now occasionally think of the Spanish word for something before the English (but this is VERY occasionally – and usually the Spanish equivalent to “bless you” when someone sneezes, which if you were wondering is “salud”)
  • And when I don’t understand what the sisters are talking about, but am clearly the subject of the conversation, I have learned to smile and nod at all the right parts to make it appear that I at least have some sense of what is going on… it is REALLY hard to understand Spanish through laughter, when 5 other people are talking at the same time, and the person who is talking has food in their mouth, just in case you were wondering.
  • I have eaten more types of bananas and in different ways than I knew existed.  Did you know that there are bananas, there are mini-bananas, there are “bananas” called plantains that are not as sweet and are harder than bananas, and there are green bananas?  And all of these can be cooked, baked, boiled, or fried in a multitude of different ways.
  • There are also different types of mangos.  There are the big yellow/orange ones that you can buy at the supermarkets in WI, but there are also smaller ones that are either orange, yellow, or green depending on how ripe they are.  These are sold on pretty much on every street corner here.  But the mangos are eaten with a ton of salt and with a chilli mixture poured over it… I still haven’t really gotten used to the chilli/mango combo and I prefer straight-up mango, but it is slowly growing on me
  • I have taken an unknown number of cold showers (I don’t even want to think about counting how many)
  • I have taken 3 bucket showers
  • I have, for the most part, figured out how to navigate the insane bus system in Honduras
  • I have become an expert at washing clothes by hand (that is actually a complete and total lie, I still don’t know how clean my clothes are getting)
  • I have made corn tortillas by hand, but I still haven’t tried making flour ones
  • I learned that cockroaches can swim
  • I have been called tall more times that I can count, and the girls continuously come up to me and say: "I'm as tall as you, right?" when they are not (and I'm NOT tall)
  • I have been told that my eyes are green way too many times - they are not, they are BROWN (maybe light brown)
  • I have acquired a number of nicknames.  The sisters call me "Nicolita" (or occasionally Nicole with a Spanish accent), a majority of the Primer Bachi girls have changed "Nicolita" to "Nicolitas," all of the externa girls from my class call me "Miss," and the adults on Sunday either call me "Profe" or "Teacher." This means that when I go out in town and someone recognizes me (which isn't really that hard since I'm practically the only gringo in Santa Rosa), I get yelled to from across the street with one of these various names.
  • And probably a ton more things that I can’t think of at this moment.

And now I have 2 and a half months left… what more can I accomplish, what more will I experience?  Only time will tell…



Wednesday, April 11, 2012

Quite the week…


Thalia and I did a lot this past week.  Because it was Holy Week, the girls had off school which meant that we had off too.  We started the off with going to Guendy Lorena’s house from Friday until Sunday morning.  Monday we left for Belize and returned on Friday.  And then on Saturday we went to El Salvador with the sisters… Like I said, it was a long week.  So, let’s get started!

Guendy Lorena’s House…
Guendy and her adorable little sister
Thalia and I started out our Semana Santa vacation by going to Guendy Lorena’s house.  Guendy has  seven brothers and sisters (she lives with four or five of them) in a three room house in Santa Barbara.  The town that she lives in is absolutely BEAUTIFUL!  She has a small creek that goes through her backyard and everything is green and wonderful.  However, you could definitely see the poverty in this town.  That is one of the things that I have been struggling with while I’ve been here… Honduras is supposedly the most violent and poorest country in Central America, and I felt that living in Santa Rosa at the school, I haven’t really been exposed to either (not that I’m complaining about living in a “safe” town!).  It took me a while to really recognize the poverty that is around me as it isn’t really that obvious in the larger towns… but once you move out into the campo regions… it is definitely more evident. 
The kitchen

Guendy’s family has a three room house, which is on the larger side for the people in her town… the house has one kitchen (which I thought was absolutely beautiful), a living room/bedroom which is separated by some hanging sheets, and another bedroom.  The floor is a kind of dirt/cement mixture and I’m pretty sure that the roof would leak if it were to rain.  That being said, Guendy’s family was amazing!  They were always offering us food (her dad makes coffee… now I’m not a coffee drinker – in fact I would probably say that I really don’t like coffee except for the smell – but this was the most delicious coffee I have ever tasted) and including us in everything that they were doing.  There was an insane amount of love in that house, it was absolutely BEAUTIFUL to see!  I mean, they have VERY little, and this family completely opened their home to two American strangers. 
Playing in the creek

Life in the campo area is VERY slow.  Thalia and I have been talking about how slow it is in the afternoons at the school… when we were at Guendy’s a majority of our time was spent watching Mexican telenovelas… we watched two entire series over the course of the three days we were at her house.  But it was interesting to see the dynamic of the town when we were watching… a bunch of people from the town would just walk into the living room, find a chair, or stand behind everyone else and watch the telenovela with us… Thalia and I weren’t sure who any of these people were or if they were related to Guendy in any way, but they were all like family.  Kids got passed around and sat on a different person’s lap all the time.  It really was a cool dynamic to witness. 

Additionally, Saturday afternoon, Guendy took us to a swimming area in the creek a ways from her house.  It had a small waterfall and a deep pool area.  A bunch of guys were just hanging out there, goofing around, and swimming.  They would jump/dive off the rocks surrounding the pool (the lifeguard in me was going insane, but it was a ton of fun!)  and of course I jumped off the rocks too!

It was a ton of fun to go to Guendy’s house, and I was insanely grateful that Thalia and I were able to go together.

Placencia, Belize…
After taking a bus from Guendy’s back to the school on Sunday morning (I think we are finally getting a hang of this bus in Honduras thing), we had a day to pack and relax before we headed out to Belize.  The plan for Monday morning was to take a pretty nice bus from Santa Rosa to San Pedro Sula at 5:30 AM which would get us to San Pedro Sula at 8:30, catch a bus from San Pedro Sula to Puerto Cortez which should be about an hour trip, and then take the D Express ferry from Puerto Cortez to Placencia, Belize at 11:00 AM.  We thought we had it figured out, we bought our tickets for the first bus a couple of days early, it was supposed to be a great bus service so we could relax during our first leg of the trip, we had reservations on the ferry, and we figured we had a decent time window to get a bus from San Pedro to Puerto Cortez… we were set!  And then absolutely everything fell apart.  We ended up taking a taxi to the bus station because the sisters didn’t like the idea of us waking in the dark, which was fine, but we got to the bus station only to have a man tell us that the bus company had canceled our trip, without letting us know… the bus wouldn’t leave until 10:30… well that for sure wouldn’t work.  Slight FREAK OUT time!  So, we walked to the other bus station, about a block away… this is the bus area where all of the normal busses go from (the ones that stop every 10 minutes to pick up more people).  A guy working there stopped us, asked where we were going, and said that a bus would be coming through on the other side of the street for San Pedro at 5:30.  He also claimed that it would be a fast bus as it had to pick up workers in San Pedro and bring them back to Santa Rosa to work.  Now, when I say a guy who worked at the bus station, he had a very badly laminated card hanging from his neck that claimed that he worked at the bus station… I didn’t really trust it, but what else were we going to do?  The next bus that we knew would be leaving for San Pedro didn’t leave until 6:00, so we waited on the side of the street for a bus that we weren’t sure would be coming or not.  But the bus did come, and we got on, and we made it to San Pedro around 8:45.  The sisters had said that the bus station in San Pedro was like an airport, which at the time, made me feel good because then we wouldn’t be standing on the side of the street waiting for a bus that we weren’t completely sure would come… however, it really was like an airport with stores and everything.  Thalia and I had to ask a couple of security guards where we could catch a bus to the port.  We did eventually find the bus we needed, and it looked promising, until we asked when it left… we were told it would leave when it was full.  Uh, oh.  But the bus did leave, around 9:15.  We talked to the driver and he said that we should be able make it to the port, but just.  So, we did the usual stop every 10 minutes to pick up more people who just didn’t fit in the little raipdito.  But eventually we did make it – but not quite to the port.  The bus driver dropped us off on the side of the freeway saying that the port was two blocks away and over the bridge… so we started walking – more like running because it was 10:30 and our ferry left at 11:00 and we were advised to get there between 9:30 and 10:00 and the ferry only ran on Monday.  AHHHHHH!  So we walked towards the first bridge we saw… but that was back the exact we had come, and lo and behold, there was a fork in the road with you guessed it, another bridge… so we guessed it was the second bridge and continued on our way.  Needless to say, we walked much more than 2 blocks, and asked probably about 3 different people where we were supposed to go, but we eventually made it, bought our tickets, made it through immigration, and I even had time to go to the bathroom (for which I had to pay 4 limpera.  Yes, I had to pay to go to the bathroom)!  After a very bumpy ferry ride and a long wait for the customs official, we finally made it to Placencia, Belize around 3:00 PM.  But, boy, was the trip worth it!  If you ever get a chance to travel where ever you please, I would seriously recommend Belize!  As soon as we arrived, Thalia and I turned to each other, said “I LOVE it here,” and tried to come up with stories to tell the sisters as to why we would have to stay. 



My mom and Steffi arrived around 5:30 which was AWESOME!  And we were able to hang out for the next 3.5 days.  On Wednesday, we took a boat tour down the Monkey River where our tour guide was insanely knowledgeable about all of the plants and animals in the area.  We got to see some Howler Monkeys in the trees and even heard a few calling to each other a ways away.  On Thursday, we went snorkeling off of a little island where we saw a TON of beautiful coral, tropical fish, huge turtles, and a ginormous sting ray.  I have to say, that was the highlight of the trip!  However, the part of Placencia that really makes it special is the atmosphere.  It isn’t over run by tourists at all, the “tourists” who were there were people who just really love to travel, but are very respectful of the places they are staying.  Additionally, the locals are AMAZING!  We sat and talked to Edwin, a wood carver for hours as he was carving a gift for Tim.  One of the restaurant owners stopped us as we were walking by and asked if we wanted to try some coconut.  Everyone was chill, all the time.  Like I said, the atmosphere is wonderful! 

Our ferry left on Friday at 9:30 (and yes, we left with it even though we had come up with at least 7 different stories we could tell the sisters as to why we would have to stay longer), and although our trip back was less eventful than our trip there, what would traveling in Honduras (or I guess around Honduras) be without some trouble?  We left Placencia and had to go though immigration in Big Creek, about a 10 minute ride away.  So we pull in, and sit, and sit, and wait… supposedly the customs official usually comes to the boat, but this time she didn’t .  So all of the passengers had to get out and walk about 10 minutes to the customs post.  And we were stopped along the way because we supposedly weren’t supposed to leave.  After going through immigration (with a very unhappy woman) we were all back on the boat by 11:30 and ready to go.  This part of our trip was uneventful, which was good.  We even saw some dolphins swimming alongside the ferry for a while, which was AWESOME!  We made it to Puerto Cortez and through immigration around 1:45.  And Don Christain was there at 2:15 to pick us up… no busses on the way back, which was GREAT!  We got to relax!

El Salvador…
Sor Berta in her tree
So we made it back to Santa Rosa in time to travel with the sisters to El Salvador on Saturday.  We all packed ourselves into a van and drove on over.  The sisters usually can’t all travel together because of the internas, but because they were on vacation, all 7 were able to go.  We stopped at a comedor for real Salvadorian papusas… apparently the ones that the girls make here aren’t the real stuff… They were really good, but a little greasier that I would like.  We then went to a hotel/park where we spent the day relaxing and exploring.  It was a ton of fun to just hang out with all of the sisters and see them have fun.  Sor Berta even climbed two trees!  We then at the hotel restaurant and I had an amazing Chicken Caesar salad with homemade croutons.  I’m not sure if it was that I haven’t had a real salad with dressing since I’ve been here or if it really was that good, but I was in love!  Anyway, El Salvador was awesome and a ton of fun!

Now, all of the internas have returned and we are back to school as usual.  Tomorrow, I will be half way done with my time here, which is absolutely crazy to think about!  Thalia has only three weeks left.  Time has flown by and I’m sure that it will go by even faster during this second half.  And I have to say that my Spanish is definitely better than when I got here!  

Anyways, that’s all for now… sorry for the ridiculously long post, hopefully I didn’t bore you. 

Loves to everyone at home!  I’ll be seeing you soon!